A lot goes on in life but the latest was collapsing and finding out i was pregnant in AnE. 24 hours later i was rushed into surgery after my Fallopian tube had ruptured and nobody noticed because i wasn’t showing enough signs of pain. i lost nearly 3 litres of blood and nearly died. me and my partner have only been together 9 months and both have children from past relationships. my surgery was only 6 weeks ago and i have very mixed emotions but one that wont seem to go is that i want to try and get pregnant again. my other half feels the same but are we mad? is it just hormones. we are financially stable and could care and provide for another child but is it too soon?
hey how are you?
i feel the same way. i just had my ectopic july 19.
Worst day of my life to hear those words that my baby was not in my uterus. i was six weeks and 1 day, i was able to see the flicker of the heartbeat(122) and everything.
my right tube was removed. every night i have trouble sleeping wondering if i can conceive again or is my remaining tube healthy enough. it bothers me to see pregnant women and babies. i have become so depressed. with that pregnancy i got pregnant my first month of trying, now i feel like it will never happen again.
Hello.
Hope your both ok.
I understand both of you. My partner and I are also still trying after a miscarriage and an ectopic. My partner is a very positive person and doesn’t let much effect him. However I am not like that and think about it all a lot. Little sleep, high emotions. My ectopic was end of May 2016. I feel scared about life. The last year has changed me as a person. I feel the miscarriage and the ectopic has taken over me and I won’t be me until I have a successful pregnancy.
X
Raaayrayyy, similar to your concern, after multiple losses over many years, I wasn’t “me” until a few years after success. Good news: I am now “me”, in fact I am better than ever (really). Hang in there! It took a lot to get us down, it will take a little to get back up.
Hey.
I had those exsactly same feelings!
Weird isn’t it how we think we’re the only ones who think these things until we ready others posts.
My eptopic was a surprise & an unplanned pregnancy & like you had my right tube removed but after time this made me realise I was ready for a baby, this is what we wanted so we waited for after 2 periods and 2 weeks of trying we fell pregnant and it was the best choice I ever made.
We now have a 4month old baby girl… 
I hope you find your path to choose & I wish you all the best for which ever way you choose to go.
Kim x