Hello,
Just wanted to find out from others, if you have had two or more ectopics have your symptoms always been exactly the same?
I had a ruptured ectopic in February and am now pregnant again. Before I had bleeding and shooting pains. This time around I did get shooting pains but only once.
Have booked in for a scan in two weeks.
I just had my second ectopic. I didn’t have any symptoms the second time around. Luckily they monitored me very closely from the very beginning and had my first ultrasound at 5+2, which I’m guessing is why no symptoms developed. I hesitated to reply with this because I didn’t want to add to your worry but just listen to your body and take care of yourself. Good luck to you. <3
Thanks for getting in touch and sorry for your heartbreak again. It’s very strange isn’t it, how symptoms vary - I thought I would know definitely one way or the other. I woke up in pain last night and had an extremely faint line on a pregnancy test today. But we will see in next couple of weeks!
How are you feeling now? Can I ask what your situation is now or are you taking a break from it all?
Also did you get blood tests taken when you were monitored? This is something that I haven’t been offered and I would say my doctor’s is taking more of the wait and see approach!
Also my husband works away a lot, so absolutely terrified that I will be on my own if it was to happen again.
Yes, I had blood tests every two days starting immediately after my first positive pregnancy test. I had an IUD at the time which is why I think they were more concerned with monitoring me so closely.
My first was 2 years ago and was treated surgically. My second was just last month and was treated with methotrexate. I needed two doses and my hcg levels reached 0 three weeks after my first dose. The methotrexate made me a bit sick for a while, but I’m close to back to normal already.
These have been my only two pregnancies and I was on birth control both times. My husband and I aren’t planning on actually trying for another two years or so, but given my history I’m thinking those plans might need to change. I have an appointment tomorrow to discuss our options for birth control and chances of having a healthy pregnancy in the future.
I’ve just had my second ectopic. The first I had no symptoms but this one I have pelvic pains and light brown discharge, my nhs service was shit and regardless of previous it was me that was jumping up and down that something was wrong. I’m sorry this has happened to you, I’ve lost both my tubes now so me and my partner have been through shit 
I’m so sorry. You must have been so strong dealing with two ectopics. Were you offered an early scan or did something happen before that?
I went to docs the day after I had positive preg test and they just said to do bloods , this was on the Wednesday, by Saturday I had pelvic pain and went to the hospital where they did a internal “feel” was sent away again … by Monday I was in a&e … they just didn’t wanna know until I was 6 weeks so it was me and my partner who pushed x luckily I did as the scan showed I had already started bleeding into my uterus
Dear LucyB_17,
Whispered congratulations on your pregnancy,
After an ectopic pregnancy, finding we are pregnant again can be a mix of emotions and I can completely understand your feeling nervous. It is perfectly normal to feel scared after the ordeal you have endured. I also felt twinges and aches after my ectopic pregnancy, particularly when I next felt pregnant. My mind started racing and I was only really able to relax to some degree after my early scan. It is a nerve-wracking time and you have a friend here who understands how you are feeling.
Each pregnancy is different and I would monitor your symptoms but I sadly have to remind you that if you experience any bleeding, abdominal pain, shoulder tip pain or feel dizzy and unwell, please seek urgent medical advice.
Sending much love and positive thoughts,
Karen x
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My first pregnancy ended in an ectopic pregnancy last December, rupturing on of my tubes. I just discovered that I am pregnant 2 weeks ago. I am more scarred than exited, because I know the risk of another ectopic is higher. I spotted in my previous and I have not spotted yet in this one. My first appointment is in 2 days and I will request an early scan to confirm the location of the pregnancy. It’s devastating, not knowing if it is another ectopic.
Fingers crossed for you Hun x I hope this little one is in the right place for you xx
Just to say - all was in right place and am now 14 weeks pregnant. See a lot of these threads, but you often don’t get to hear what the outcome was, so thought I would let people know, if it’s a help…
I have kept this pregnancy extremely private so far. I told my mum straight away and husband and I are telling in laws tomorrow. But I am really not comfortable with anyone else knowing. I just couldn’t take it if anything else happened.
Looking back at this year, I think wow your body has been through a hell of a lot. Pregnant, ruptured ectopic and critically ill, recovering physically, recovering emotionally and now pregnant again!
Dear LucyB_17,
Thank you so much for taking the time to keep us updated and giving hope to so many.
I honestly know how difficult it is when you struggle to relax or feel excited about your pregnancy, but you are past the first trimester now, which is really positive. Take each day as it comes, try not to dwell on negatives, and I send you much love and continued positive thoughts
Karen x
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