I’ve asked for my baby back. I just couldn’t stand the though of it being frown away. I know it was only a fetus and I only knew I was pregnant for 11 weeks but in those weeks I had already started to plan there life, and love them. Did anyone else get there’s back, and what did you do with it?
I’m getting mine back on Friday. So nervous. I don’t know what to do next. I was thinking a large planter in the garden with a nice rose bush but my husband wants baby buried properly. Not sure what to do 
I left it with the hospital - I asked if it will be buried with other babies the nurse said yes… so I said it’s ok I thought it will be with the other angels …
when I came back home I thought should I have collected it …
the nurse didn’t give me enough time to think plus I was already so emotional …
They said they bury it in a nice garden …
Mine ended up going to a group cremation. But it was a rushed decision and I was scared and didn’t really know what to do and when the nurse said “tick a box” that’s what I did…
I was asked about this 30 minutes before my surgery, it hadn’t even crossed my mind as I was so focused on getting through the surgery.
I agreed to a group cremation with a blessing being given but to be honest I think this question should have been asked when I had family there to support me not during the pre-op questions.
I am glad there will be a blessing done.