Think ive given up

Preparing For Your Next Pregnancy
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Its been 4 months now and I have lost all desire to try to conceive, I still have a cyst that may need an op on, I think I am scared if I conceive it will happen again and we started looking at the adoption route I was so excited but now I feel emotionally that maybe its not time??? I stopped taking metformin and folic acid… ate like no ones business and gained a stone… not sure of the way forward, 5 years trying to conceive 1 miscarriage 1ectopic and hospitalised for both, I do long for little ones but am not sure how to move on in this area or to just leave it, not try then revisit this next year. Everything feels up in the air. Sorry if tmi just needed to write it down.

I do hope for all the best for all of you and your desire for little ones xx

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I feel for you. We’ve only been trying for 15 months, but already had a miscarriage and an ectopic, and I’m soon going to be 39. Some days, I also wonder why we bother, and doubt it will ever happen for us. Then, there are other days with hope. I know another friend and her husband just decided that after years, they are done trying, and will sell their house to downsize, and now might also make some career changes that they put off.

It’s a tough call. All I can say is trust your gut, and do what is right for you.

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Thank you lily, I appreciate your kind words. I hope things work out well for you x