Hi. I had a Caesarean scar ectopic pregnancy back in December 2023. Which ended with surgery in January 2024. I had laparoscopic surgery with my scar being repaired also. After I was told to wait one year till I try again. Which is now! I feel ready to in a way but then the fear comes to me and then I don’t feel ready. I’m full of anxiety that something like this will happen again. But I know anytime I try again the fear is always going to be there, I’m never going to have a pregnancy that will not be full of anxiety because of my previous pregnancy loss. I have a son (1 previous c section) prior to my scar ectopic. I would love to make him a big brother.
So I’m just looking for positive story’s of anyone who has had a successful pregnancy after a csep. Or any advice on dealing with anxiety and fear with trying again after pregnancy loss?
Thanks.
Dear nade,
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy loss. It is really common to feel anxious about trying to conceive following ectopic pregnancy (I did too, an I was only able to relax a little after the early pregnancy scan)
I am aware of the complications surrounding c-section scar ectopic pregnancies and they can be difficult to navigate through, so i understand your worries about it happening again. It maybe comforting to know that there is a 90% chance the embryo will be in the right place next time and of course, don’t forget to book in for that early pregnancy scan at 6 weeks.
Making the decision to begin trying to conceive is an emotional rollercoaster compounded by our sad loss. Again, you are not alone, we are here for emotional support whenever you need us. There is also a Preparing For Your Next Pregnancy board which you can look at whenever you feel ready.
Sending much love,
Karen x