Hiya,
On Tuesday, after 2 years and 8 months of trying we got our big fat positive
By LMP, I would be 7 weeks pregnant yesterday. Clearblue digital said 2-3 weeks which indicates I’m earlier than going by dates. Normal tests are giving a bright line before the urine has even passed the window. Super strong positives.
I (obviously) started to panic anyway given our journey plus previous loss and booked a reassurance scan for yesterday. We went at 1pm and basically the outcome was a “pregnancy of unknown location”. There was just a small empty fluid filled sac.
Obviously this indicates
Too early.
Miscarriage.
Ectopic.
My cycles aren’t regular so I very well could have ovulated late which wouldn’t necessarily be unusual for me.
I’m having an achey feeling in my shoulder so now I’m convinced it’s an ectopic pregnancy although this is something that I do feel when not pregnant (mainly due to my dog forcing me to sleep in ridiculous positions ).
No other symptoms apart from really light cramping/period pain, slight headache, sore boobs.
I know the odds are likely stacked against us and the outcomes aren’t usually great. We were absolutely over the moon and now I just feel like I’ve made us worry, I’m scared about the fact we’ve tried for so long to finally get the result we wanted for it to all be going wrong already. But also concerned that obviously if it is somewhere else, that’s dangerous…
She couldn’t see anything in my tubes etc and asked me to do a test today and call back IF positive. I did one and it was stronger than 2 days ago. Not sure if that counts for anything.
I work in the same hospital in maternity so
managed to get them to hurry and I’ve got an appointment in a few hours.
I guess I just needed to get this out somewhere and get some opinions although I know nobody can give me any answers.
Curious to know what your symptoms were personally too if you don’t mind sharing.
Thanks in advance ladies xxx