Hello I’m new here but needed advice from people in similar situations.
I had an ectopic in December and had my right tube removed.
We have been trying for a baby since Febuary and I have now got my first positive test. I was due my period today.
I have been having sharp twisting/stabbing pains in my ovaries which is what I felt before when I had an ectopic. I’m scared and worried that the doctors are going to turn me away as I’m maximum going to be 3 weeks along.
I have an appointment booked for this afternoon but it’s with a male doctor who I don’t feel is going to be the most empathetic to my situation. I’m worried I will be turned away as with my previous ectopic they didn’t listen to me and I was left for a month in a lot of pain which resulted in emergency surgery.
My local EPU doesn’t accept self referrals so I can’t speak them either.
Hello,
I’m sorry you’re feeling scared. I know that it’s probably too early for an ultrasound until just after the 6 week mark. I found they weren’t able to help much until that point at my local hospital. I felt those kind of pains too and I had a tube removed. I’m probably 2 months ahead of where you’re at and I’m now 20 weeks pregnant after my ectopic so stay in there. Try not to freak out too much about the pains as after being on the forums here I found lots of women had the same kind of pains and it’s quite normal as your uterus stretches etc. I think any pregnancy after an ectopic is going to be full of worry and anxiety but it’s something we have to get through and let’s face it we’ve been through enough to be strong to get through this bit! Good luck x
Hello,
Thank you for replying. I was kind of ready to accept that I wasn’t going to have any more children and then right at that point this happens. Something in my mind told me to do a test as I have been having pains the past few days, I was beginning to think that my cysts had come back that they removed when I had the ectopic surgery because of the pain.
I guess I’m over whelmed with emotions at the moment and because I’m sat in pain I’m just wishing someone could tell me what’s happening. Hard to not assume the worst in these situations. I’m hoping for the best and trying to take my mind off things…easier said than done X
It’s hard to relax after an ectopic. I had a lot of pains in my uterus area when I got pregnant after the ectopic. All is well now and I’m 29 weeks along. But I was very afraid, and frankly shocked when they told me at 7 weeks that it was in my uterus.
After an ectopic, we are much more aware of any feelings when pregnant. And, there could be scar tissue causing more pain as well. Good luck. I really hope all is where it should be for you!
I keep thinking/hoping its scar tissue but it’s always in my mind dreading its happening again.
I’m in constant pain at the moment and keep getting sharp griping pain when I stand up too quickly. I have the doctors at 3:50pm but I know there isn’t much they can do. Like I few others have said its just a little reassuring to be on their radar and at least have it in my notes just in case something did happen. Wishing for the best. Thank you for responding. It’s really hard feeling alone but I couldn’t possibly tell anyone else in my family as they would just worry and make me more worried in return.
Update. Doctor has referred me to EPU so they can decide on bloods being taken and book a scan when they will be able to see something. I’m 4 weeks now so won’t be until 5 1/2 - 6 weeks but they will be calling me within a day or two.
Dear Hope1990,
Whispered congratulations on your pregnancy.
Pain in early stages of pregnancy can be due to a number of factors and not necessarily an ectopic pregnancy, but I completely understand your worry and you did exactly the right thing in seeking medical advice.
I am glad you have been referred to your local EPU, it can often be reassuring to know we are on the medical radar so to speak.
Sadly I do have to remind you that if your pain worsens or you experience bleeding to seek urgent medical help, but for now try to take things easy.
I will be sending positive thoughts,
Sending much love,
Karen x
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Thank you Karen. I am feeling a little more relaxed at the moment so I’m just taking it easy until I hear back from epu. Just need to take it one stage at a time this time round 
Hi Hope, just reading your posts as I’m in the same situation. I hope you’re ok? What did your scan show? Sending lots of love and hope your way xx