Hi,
I used these forums back in 2006 after my Ectopic pregnancy & loss of fallopian tube.
Since then I have had two successful pregnancies.
After a gap of over 10 years, I am now 4 weeks pregnant.
I have a scan booked in 2 weeks time.
I’ve had a little spotting and general ‘discomfort’ in my abdomen but nothing unbearable as yet.
I’m very nervous, and would really appreciate any advice on how to remain sane over the next two weeks! Panic has truly set in!
Thankyou x
Hi Hopeful80,
A whispered congratulations to you! Many women on these boards, myself included, have felt (and still feel) apprehensive in future pregnancies. It is a time of uncertainty and we have many questions. Especially, if we’ve suffered a baby loss in the past.
It’s easier said than to do, but as best you are able to stay calm during these early days. Sometimes that can be through meditation and yoga, other times it’s just enough to distract ourselves with our family-life or walks in the fresh air.
It’s great you have your early scan booked in and I hope that will provide some peace of mind. Remember, there is nothing we can do to cause nor to prevent an ectopic pregnancy. It is not our doing or our fault.
While I know you may have a lot on your mind, I hope you can take some time to enjoy the moment of time you are in and I hope that brings some peace.
Sending you good wishes,
Michele
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Michele,
Thankyou so much for your kind words of encouragement. I really appreciate your reply.
Xx
Hi I wanted to reply to you as can relate to how you are feeling. I’m currently 12 weeks pregnant after an ectopic with left tube removal in May last year. I found out I was pregnant at 5 weeks and have been (and continue) to be a nerve wreck with worry that something will go wrong.
I have tried to keep ‘sane’ by being alert to the symptoms of something not being right and requiring medical opinion if needed. I have found hospital staff to be very understanding and approachable.
I also try and write down how I feel to help me work through my thoughts a bit.
I really hope everything works out for you
Take care of yourself
Sarah x