Heya so I’ve jst found out I’m pregnant again on my first month of trying after ectopic surgery to remove tube very early October. I was in such an anxious state last night that I called EPU today as felt I had some shoulder pain. I would be around 4 weeks 5/6days if my cycle is 28 days. I went in for a scan and they did say we might not see anything this early which wouldn’t be unusual sometimes we can sometimes we can’t. So nothing was seen other than the endometrium lining is thickening. They’ve asked me to have HCG bloods as that’s policy. I was told sometimes after ectopic ovulation may be bit all over place and I can’t be sure exactly when I ovulated so I may be a few days or so earlier than I think. They also said hcg below 1500 they wouldn’t see a sac yet. Done bloods today and I’ll see what they come back and ones Sunday to hope they’ve gone up by the 63% they would like to see. Once they know what bloods doing they will make a plan to re scan. Is it possible that it is just too early? Obviously I am terrified of another ectopic and with Xmas approaching I’m even more so nervous given what I went through last time. I’m trying my best to hold it together, having lots my dad to cancer this year and the ectopic I’m feeling pretty beaten right now. Thanks in advance ladies
Hi Soph1990,
I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this worrying time. Please ensure you receive the care and advice of medical professionals during this early pregnancy. While I’m not medically qualified to comment on your particular situation, I’ve been through two ectopic pregnancies myself, and I know how much anxiety can accompany an early pregnancy.
It’s impossible to control the outcomes. As much as possible, try to take one day at a time and see how your pregnancy is progressing. Early pregnancy is particularly stressful, and that’s why it’s so important to create some space to look after yourself.
It’s important to be aware of any pain or changes in sensations. I encourage you to keep working with the medical providers and ask all and any questions about the best pathway for your care. I’m sending good thoughts your way and hoping for better news for you this time. Please know we are here for as long as you need.
With good wishes,
Michele
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Hi Michelle
I’m sorry to hear you’ve been through it twice. I can’t stop thinking about what if it’s happening again. Any minute pain or feeling I get I’m panicking. I’m blaming myself should we have waited is this my fault why me what will people ask etc all those things. Feel so stressed xx
Soph1990,
Please try not to blame yourself. There is so much outside of our control. During this time, you might find that journalling helps to put some of your thoughts on paper. I found it helpful to get the thoughts outside my head and I could reflect more clearly upon seeing them. The Trust also recommends talking therapies and the organization MIND mind be of some help and/or speaking with your GP.
Please know that you are not alone.
With good wishes,
Michele
Hi sadly my worries came to fruition and I am miscarrying when they believe it is an early loss as my bloods have dropped right back down from Sunday. How things can change in a week. I’ve got a follow up next week with a doctor who seemed very supportive. I hope she can be because some of my experiences with the hospital this weekend have been absolutely awful 
I think maybe it was just too soon after my ectopic surgery. I think I need some time out from trying for a few months and start again once a bit more time has passed x
Hi Soph1990,
I’m so sorry to hear this news. Please take your time with recovery and be gentle with yourself. We know that physical recovery is often quicker than our emotional recovery. TTC can bring up many emotions of your experiences, and often taking more time can provide additional time to work through the emotions. Please take things in your own time. We remain here for as long as you need.
With good wishes,
Michele
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