Hey Daisy, Im sorry for what uv just gone thru again. Ur rite a negative result is better than a positive if that’s guna mean a pos ectopic. Ur rite if u hadn’t tested yesterday than u wouldn’t have known. It’s strange thou… I don’t get how one min it was positive n then negative… I hope it was a false neg n not a miscarriage. … R u still bleeding now? Do u think it’s like a period now then? R u having any cramps/pains?
Don’t u mean ur nxt period would b due end of sep? As it can’t b 31 st October is too long away…
Remember if u have any concerns ring ur epu even for jus reassurance.
I hope ur ok… n yea its best u didn’t get ur head around it… uts confusing thou.
I know exactly what u mean. … its do hard hearing about n seeing preg women especially people who still drink n smoke knowing their preg.
When I had my second preg when I had started spotting n not knowing at that point if I was loosing it then… before it was confirmed at the scan as a PUL preg n before the crampsvhad started so I was still hopeful at that stage… my friend at work told me her young friend was recently preg then n was drinking loads still at that point n then she had an abortion… n tthat was literally at time I was diagnosed as having an ectopic/miscarriage n it was hard to listen to my friend talk about her friend doin that.
Also my friend at works daughter was trying wen I was n she had fallen preg few weeks after I did n know my friend at work tells me how her daughter is due Oct 3rd n shes excited as shel b a nanny for first time n I cant help but remember I was given my second due date of October 28th. Im still hoping to b healthy preg before that date…
Yea im on the 2 wks wait. If my cycle is back to normal my nxt period will b due September 14th.
It seems like a long wait n hard to not hope I am preg. … but then I think we only ttc twice during my fertile time… so it might not have worked. … even thou I know it only takes once. I didnt tell my partner I was fertile wen we ttc this time.
My twin sis gives me hope as wen she got preg with her 1 yr old daughter she told me her n her partner only had did it once on day 11 n she had fallen preg and according to my calculated fertile time goin by my normal 26 day cycle my ovulating tine is Day 10 to 15 n I ttc on day 11 and 12 and today’s day 15. I wanted to ttc last night on day 14 but wen I got hom at 10.45pm after babysitting my baby niece my bf was watching tennis in frontroom n said he was coming bed after but fell asleep on sofa n came bed at 2.30am n went straight bk to sleep wen came to bed and he’s at work know. Iv got day off as booked day off today.
Its prob jus as well we didn’t coz my back is still really sore since last wk wedn for that reason im glad to be off work today.
But I haven’t let my bf know how painful my back is incase we have another chance of ttc today… coz hes less likely to want to if he knows how painful my bak is.
I remember in Jan wen I last fell preg my back bein bad then n id gad a back specialist clinic appointment where they do deep tissue massage where u have to lye on ur tummy for some of it n the bak specialist assured me it was safe to have a treatment when ur early preg but I remember afterwards thinking could that have played a part in me loosing my baby but im sure it didn’t…
Ita so hard all this ttc. Sometimes I feel like it be easier to jus give up on it but then its hard to when u want a baby so much n especially after having losses.
I don’t like to hear about anyone going thru this but its comforting wen u know ur not the only one n that lots of other women go thru it n have healthy pregs n babies afterwards. … so its hard to give up on it.
I do positive affirmations every day to have a healthy baby n I started doing that even before the first time I was ever preg last yr August.
U can’t give up hope n really have to believe it will happen when its meant to… its so hard thou.
Can I ask how old u are? I just wondered.
I really hope ur ok n ur partner is being supportive towards u.
If it doesn’t work for this month n my cycle is back to reg 25/26 days then im hopeful in trying at right time next month coz me n my bf r going away for 4 days to Wales to go to his best mates wedding n wel be staying in a hotel n if ny cycle is back to normal wel be away during my next fertile days so I think it b good chance for ttc to happen.
Remember to ring ur epu if u need to n I really hope ur ok. Sending u hugs.
x x