Ttc after ectopic

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Hey everyone, just looking for some advice really, I Had an ectopic pregnancy in feb this year 7 months on and still not pregnant, cycles were 28 days but for some reason this month went to 31 days. I’m sooo scared that I might not ever be able to have another baby and the wating game is a killer FairPlay! I really thought as af was 3 days late that I was preg I even had the symptoms :frowning: done a test obviously neg and within the hour came af :frowning: I’m driving myself insane researching online don’t know what to do. Any one else I. The same boat? :frowning:

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Hi Genna,

Gosh your post really resonates with me. I also had an EP in feb this year, my left tube ruptured and had to be removed. I have had a regular 26day cycle from 5 weeks after EP and not conceived.

I have had 2 occasions where AF has been late (by 3 and 4 days respectively). These months have driven me insane, I’ve been symptom spotting and building myself up for such a big disappointment each time.

My heart feels so heavy when AF gets me and I feel as though I will never have the chance to have a healthy pregnancy.

I feel like I’m driving myself crazy. I’m always googling conception tips but no luck.

I’m sorry I don’t have any advice. But thank you for your post as I don’t feel so on my own now.

Wishing you lots of baby dust

Rachel

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Hi Rachel,

I completely understand how you feel, I get my hopes so high each month especially when af comes late but the results still remain a negative :frowning:

I’m sure I’ve read everything there is to read on ectopic and trying to conceive after… and apparently it could take anything upto 2 yrs after to get preg.

But then I’ve also read sooo many posts where people has successfully conceived within the first 2-3 months after their ordeal which then worries me that I’m the only one and it’s just never going to happen for me.

I’ve cried endless times and struggle to remain stress free as it doesn’t help in conceiving so it’s like a big vicious circle!

I really appreciate you’re post :slight_smile: it means a lot to be able to talk to someone going through a mirrored situation to mine. At the same time I’m sorry you have had to endure this situation. And wish you all the best of luck for the future :slight_smile: and having a beautiful baby :slight_smile:

Feel free to offload its nice to hear other people’s views

Genna x

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I am so glad that I found this forum , I was all alone with those feelings. Baby dust to ALL XOXOXO