Third Pregnancy after Ectopic & Successful Pregnancy

Pregnant After Ectopic Pregnancy
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Hi all,

I had an ectopic in Sept 2019. My tube ruptured and I lost 1.5 liters of blood and had to get emergency surgery. It was traumatizing. I know many of you can relate. I got pregnant in Sept 2020 & went to see a new doctor and begged them to do an early ultrasound at 6 weeks. They agreed and the sac was in the right place and I was so relieved! I now have a healthy baby boy! Praise God. He is so good.

I am now 6 or 7 weeks pregnant (not sure when my last period was) & I’m so scared of it being ectopic. My doctor won’t do a scan for another 10 days. I am in the US, so I’m not sure if we have different protocol for women who have had previous ectopics.

I wasn’t scared for the first week of finding out I’m pregnant, but now I’m getting closer to the point in my ectopic where it ruptured and I can’t stop thinking about it. The only thing that helps is prayer. But I’m still so scared to go through another rupture and possibly die this time. Pregnancy is so scary now.

Lots of love :heart:

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Hi Megolego23,

I am so sorry you are going through this worrying time. It’s very natural to feel anxious in pregnancies following our ectopic experiences. You have suffered trauma and becoming pregnant again can bring up memories of what you have experienced. I know how hard the waiting can be, but it is very good you have a GP in the US and are being looked after. For your own peace of mind, make sure to ask any questions you have about the process and care you will receive in this pregnancy.

I know it’s easier said than done, but as much as you can try to relax during this time. Be mindful of any symptoms you experience. You might even want to journal these as a way to record anything that is occurring. However, try to create some space for yourself. I know with a child and the Christmas season, that can be difficult. As best as you are able, make sure to take some rest.

We are here for you for as long as you need. I wish you a whispered congratulations.

Cheers,

Michele

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I feel just as nervous!

I had an ectopic recently. Am pregnant now too. Today is my 5th week, i have to wait till next week to get myself checked!

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I feel just as nervous!

I had an ectopic recently. Am pregnant now too. Today is my 5th week, i have to wait till next week to get myself checked!

I feel for you! Thinking too much won’t help us but i pray all will be well for you!