Pregnant and nervous

Hi all,

First time posting! I had a ruptured ectopic in my right tube 6 years ago, tube removed and 2litre transfusion. Following a laparoscopy I found out my left tube had been damaged by an infection (most likely after my daughter was born 8 years ago when I got a horrible infection that didn’t get picked up for weeks).

I’ve never had the courage to try again but decided a couple of years ago it was now or never and had 3 rounds of ivf which all failed (last one was in Feb). This week, I’ve had a positive pregnancy test naturally. I’m pretty terrified about having another ectopic. I’ve got a scan booked in at 6 weeks exactly (just under 2 weeks away) but I’m driving myself insane with worry. Is there any other way I can keep an eye on things in the meantime? Would it be worth getting my hcg levels checked to see if they’re normal? Can they still be normal even if ectopic? I think I’m 4w2d and clearblue was showing 1-2 wks yesterday (ie 3-4 wks pregnant). I also did a test from the ivf clinic and it was very faint which has worried me. First response looked ok though not as dark as the control line, but I know their hcg sensitivity is low. As you can see, I’m overthinking!! I’m just so scared to have another ectopic.

Thanks for reading X

Dear d21suz,

Whispered congratulations on your pregnancy.

After an ectopic pregnancy, finding we are pregnant again can be a mix of emotions and I can completely understand your feeling nervous. It is perfectly normal to feel scared after our previous experience. When I next fell pregnant my mind started racing and I was only really able to relax to some degree after my early scan. It is a nerve-wracking time and you have friends here who understands how you are feeling.

When diagnosing an ectopic pregnancy, doctors use a combination of transvaginal ultrasound scanning and blood tests to check HCG levels. Usually scans take place at around six weeks gestation as there is a reasonable chance of seeing an embryo at around this time. If scans are inconclusive, doctors would carry out a series of blood tests to check hCG levels to see if the numbers are rising as expected. It is not standard practice in the UK to complete serial hCG blood tests, but you could enquire with your medical team.

The issue is that in isolation, hCG tests only provide a part of the picture - declining levels indicate that a pregnancy has ended and will be miscarried. It can also possibly indicate an ectopic pregnancy that is “self-resolving”. Also hCG levels rising by less than 66% over 48 hours means it is likely (but not certain) that it is ectopic. If levels rise normally, they suggest the pregnancy is implanted in the uterus. You may see from this that hCG levels only indicate certain possibilities and are not in themselves a definitive guide. A positive identification of an implanted embryo on a scan is usually needed before a final diagnosis/certainty that the pregnancy has implanted in the uterus.

I should also say that the colour of the pregnancy test line does not automatically mean there are issues. My first pregnancy had a deep line and was ectopic, my second pregnancy, was a very faint line and I literally feared the worst but this one was successful.

I hope it gives you some comfort that the chances of a further ectopic after a first in UK is 10%. So that’s 90% chance of the embryo being in right place this time and I will continue to send positive thoughts.

Try to keep yourself busy and your mind occupied, reading, gentle walks, box sets, puzzles, whatever it takes. There are also lots of positive success stories on these boards for you to read which may help

Sending much love and positive thoughts,

Karen x

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I’m in exactly the same position. Found out I’m pregnant for the first time since my ectopic last year and I’m worrying myself something silly that every twinge could mean it’s ectopic.

I’m trying to think of things that might take my mind off it and calling the hospital today to get myself booked in for an early scan.

Fingers crossed for you that yours is not ectopic! And if you find any good things to do to take your mind off it let me know xx