Hello all, we have been trying for 5 years and had one miscarriage and one ectopic, pregnant again but hcg gone down and terrified it’s another ectopic, am bleeding but not much so feels just like before and having to wait a whole week for another hcg test. I terrified of going through it again and what that might mean for the future. All the doctors I see when I tell them I am 35 they make me feel ancient like the fact I am getting older is something I can change. Noone seems to understand my fears so thought I would try a forum.
Hi sarah
Ive just joined the group today after my first EP 2 weeks ago and although im not in your position yet i already feel anxious about trying again and how that would feel waiting and not knowing.
Your fear is totally understandable. You’ve been through so much already and 35 is far from ancient (im 36) to have a baby.
I dont have words that can help really but i just wanted to reach out and say i understand. I’ll be thinking of you.
Vicky xx
Thank you, I am sorry to hear you have had to gone through one also, we paid for a private HSG scan after the first to check for damage and although expensive it did give us a good peace of mind. X
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this. I’m pregnant again after 1st ectopic and removal of left tube. HCG is not doubling the way it should . They did a Ultrasound today and can’t find sign of pregnancy anywhere but I’m only 4.5. I know how scary it is to worry that its another ectopic. Send you lots of postive thoughts.