Hi all I need some advice I had an ectopic pregnancy 5 weeks ago had surgery the day after I found out to remove the pregnancy and my right tube. I did a test 3 weeks after as told to by the doctor came up negative I’ve been having some brown spotting I was thinking I was getting my period as that’s usually how I would start And 2 days later I would get my proper period for like 3 days but 4 days after the spotting started no period I took a pregnancy test this morning don’t know why I did but I did any way there is the faintest second line but definitely 2 lines for pregnant me and my Partner have been so careful because I was told by the doctor to not ttc until after 1 period so I’m so scared and so nervous I’m thinking I might wait a few days and do another test but I’m just terrified of what the outcome will be especially being so soon after the surgery
Dear Georginad,
Before having a period you have to ovulate and it is possible to become pregnant without having a proper period first, if you are not using contraception. If you have had a positive pregnancy test but experienced some bleeding, I would advise speaking to your GP who maybe able to arrange blood tests to check your hCG.
Sadly I do have to remind you that if you experience any worsening bleeding or abdominal pain or feel dizzy and unwell to seek urgent medical advice.
Sending much love and positive thoughts,
Karen x
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During the coronavirus outbreak, The EPT team is still working hard to provide crucial information and support to women and families experiencing ectopic pregnancy as quickly and efficiently as we can.
If we have been able to help you, are you able to help us with a small donation or by volunteering or fundraising?
Further information is available at ectopic.org.uk
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Just wanted to post an update so I was pregnant had my early scan they saw something very low down in my uterus near my cervix and said it could just be very early or it’s the startings of a miscarriage I was supposed to go back for blood tests today but yesterday I started having a miscarriage I’m so heartbroken I feel like such a failure as a woman 
Dear Georginad,
I have replied to another post from yourself, but incase you haven’t seen it, I have posted here too with the added information that you are in no way a failure.
I know that when I had my ectopic pregnancy I also looked for a reason and almost automatically we tend to blame ourselves. From the bottom of my heart, there is nothing you could have done to prevent the ectopic pregnancy from happening. I cannot emphasise enough - you are not to blame. Please be kind to yourself and I send you gentle hugs.
I am so sorry to hear this, to experience one loss is difficult to deal with multiple losses is heartbreaking and my heart truly goes out to you.
Miscarriage is not linked to ectopic pregnancy, however the incidence of miscarriage is 1 in 5 pregnancies, and so I’m so sorry that you have gone through this.
Please be kind to yourself and allow time to grieve, to heal both physically and emotionally. Your feelings are completely normal after everything you have experienced, however if the down days start to outweigh the good, we at the Trust believe that talking through what happened and your emotions as and when you can helps the healing process. We operate a helpline service and there’s no pressure whatsoever but if you would ever like the opportunity to speak over the phone to someone who has been through a similar experience, do feel free to call, details are below. We can take things at your pace entirely and you are free to ask any questions that are on your mind. You can talk about the ordeal you have been through and express your feelings to vent and let off some steam. We can exchange emails too, if you prefer that route. We’ll simply be here for you, however you wish and for as long as you wish.
In addition, you can ask to see a GP at your practice and ask them to explore ways in which you can get help and this can include referrals for “talking therapies” or counselling.
We have information on our website about finding counselling services and we have more information here: http://www.ectopic.org.uk/patients/emotional-impact/
The charity Mind may also be of assistance. They have local centres and support groups and can offer services on a means-tested basis or sometimes free. You can find your local centre following this link if that may be useful too: http://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/local-minds/
Above all be kind to yourself and allow time to grieve, to heal both physically and emotionally.
Sending much love and warm hugs,
Karen x
The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
Registered Charity Number: 1071811
Ectopic pregnancy patient information suite: Highly Commended in the 2019 BMA Patient Information Awards
During the coronavirus outbreak, The EPT team is still working hard to provide crucial information and support to women and families experiencing ectopic pregnancy as quickly and efficiently as we can.
If we have been able to help you, are you able to help us with a small donation or by volunteering or fundraising?
Further information is available at ectopic.org.uk
Email us: ept@ectopic.org.uk
We provide a call-back helpline service: 020 7733 2653
Take a look at our newsletters and subscribe to our mailing list here: https://mailchi.mp/986bdd6091ee/ectopic-matters
Detailed medical information can be found on our website. Please remember online medical information is NO SUBSTITUTE for expert medical advice from your own health care team