Dear Elisida88,
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss and I truly understand what a worrying time it can be.
It is perfectly normal for your first period to be different that normal, some ladies find it is lighter and sadly some find it is heavier and more painful than normal. This should settle down into a rhythm and flow that is more normal for you in the next few months.
Experiencing some pain after an ectopic pregnancy is normal as your body has been through a great deal over the last few months. The pain may be due your body preparing to ovulate and many women experience ovulation pain when they did not before their ectopic pregnancy - including myself. You also may have a heightened perception because of the sad loss that you have had to go through. If you find you experience offensive smelling discharge or a temperature, I would advise seeking medical advice.
If the pain persists, I suggest keeping a pain diary noting when the pain appears, the intensity on a scale of 0-10 and anything that helps the pain eg resting, hot water bottle, paracetamol etc. Visiting your doctors with this information helps them to assess how best to manage your symptoms.
Unfortunately I am not medically trained so if you have continued concerns, please seek medical advice.
Sending much love,
Karen x
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