Well ladies it’s a new month and hopefully it brings some great news for at least someone.
I wish everyone the best of luck,
Lots of baby dust to you all
Xx
Hi Ladies,
Sending lots of Autumnal babydust to us all, lets hope we see some BFP’s this month, I am keeping my fingers crossed and a positive smile.
Thank you for starting a fresh thread Shibhon.
Best wishes to you all xxxxxxxxx
Thanks for getting the new post started Shibhon 
I’m just in TWW at the moment and we did LOTS of trying so fingers crossed … Again!
Sending lots of luck to everyone xx
Hi ladies,
I hope u dont mind me joining u im sarah i had my ruptured ep in aug 10 followed by an mmc in feb 11, after some time off ttc (working and now finishing my degree by june, plus hubby was made redundant) we’ve decided to try again, i sugested after new year but hubby is wanting to start now. My periods however in the last two months have been all over the place up to day 42 when my normal cycle is 30 ish
Im on day 28 which means i know im not pregant but have however started to take pre-pregnancy supliments and getting ready to get back on the rollercoaster tho am hoping that with uni, work and hubby ill be too busy and distracted to get stressed
Good luck to everyone
Sarah xx
Welcome to the fold Sarah!
Sorry to hear you’ve been through the mill so hopefully it’ll be good news this time
Fingers crossed being busy is the way forward for us as I don’t seem to have a minute either! Good luck getting back to trying and keeping track of your cycle. I know what crazy cycles are like!
Stay positive!x
Hello
Will be joining the ladies on here for November TTC.
I suffered 2 m/c in 2012 and a ruptured cornual ectopic in march this year.
We have been TTC since May but no luck so far 6 months on of trying which is odd as usually 4-5 months like clockwork before I had this ectopic pregnancy.
Feeling a bit concerned but keeping my fingers crossed and wishing ladies good luck
X
Thanks for the warm welcom now just wishing my period would hurry up and arrive now
It’s an anxious time of waiting, I think we’re all too familiar with it! We have a specialist appointment next month and trying to be a little blasé in the meantime. This is tough sometimes but I’m finding it easier than a few months ago. I was consumed, and I still have moments of it but it’s not so all pervading.
So we’re in the tww, hoping for good news, but sort of hanging on for what the specialist has to say. Does anyone have experience with Clomid? I’ve heard pros and cons…
Anyway, baby blessings to all!
Chez, chlomid… Personally I’ve not tried it yet, but my very close friend had polly cystic overies and had been TTC for 3 years with no luck, she went on it and within 2 cycles she was pregnant, to be honest it seems to be th case for most people using it. And I’ve read into it a lot and is an option myself and partner have discussed, however a lot of people don’t like it because it’s less natural. And people go on about the % of multiple babies which is only 10%
I’d say if you feel it’s a route you wish to go down, look into it research it on the internet list the pros and cons and talk to your partner and maybe a close friend before you jump into it.
Good luck with your decision x
Thankyou Shibhon, you’re very encouraging. It sounds like your friend has had great success, hopefully you and I can too.
I just read a beautiful little book again today, it’s Called ‘Jesse, found in Heaven’. I’m reminded again that so many women go through this, which would normally cause me to think: get over it Chez! However, every woman grieving this deep loss, even years later, would say it is deeply sad and sorrowful. We are not alone, and we are entitled to feel heartwrenchingly sad at times, even often.So today I’m feeling sad, and a little ripped off, but on the whole I am grateful to have a good life and a husband and family whom I love, and who love me back.
So it’s a happy-sad day today!
I’m heading to the specialist this month and going to ask about clomid, to see if I’m a good candidate. Any info or experience with this I would greatly appreciate!
Baby blessings to all! X
I think sometimes the outside world expects us to not be sad and it can make us a worried that we are at times, I still get really upset at anniversaries and most of my friends just don’t get it.
Chez I know absolutely nothing about clomid but hope you get the answers from the specialist you want
Still no af and on day 34 and am getting really feed up, I miss my regular 28 day period (never thought Id say that!), just wish I knew what was going on with my body as my cycle is just all over the place over the last three or four cycles :evil:
I hope everyone is getting on well and sending positive vibes
Sarah xx
Hey Guys,
I sort of joined in last month but I still dont get all the acronyms, what is tww?
Donna
Hi ladies I hope you don’t mind me joining, I just don’t seem to fit in on other Trying boards! Brief history - PUL early 2011, DS born almost a year to the day later. Getting on a bit now so hubby has finally persuaded me to start trying for number 2. Came off the pill on Sunday (still breastfeeding DS once a day too) and already started bleeding (not happy after 31 months of no witch!!!). Hope it’s ok to join in this thread x
Donna tww is two week wait hun and welcome tedster im not supprised ur not happy after that long of no af heres hoping u wont have many
Af finally came now this is now going to be fhe first month trying tho have load planned this month and have mates bozzyhen do i two weeks and weding at end of dec am not going to be to overally unpset if it doesnt happen straight away but still have my fingers crossed
Sarah x
Welcome Tedster - hope thing settle down soon!
Donna TWW means two week wait - the bit between ovulating and getting either your period or a BFP (big fat positive!)
I’ve had my BFP this morning - totally wasn’t expecting it and absolutely terrified! Not allowing myself to be excited or think long term at all until I know it’s in the right place - keeping everything crossed and just going to try and look after myself now. Got to try and stay positive xx
And good luck this month Sarah! Being busy worked for me!xx
Congratulations ilovebarney that is great news but understand wanting to be causiously optimistic after bfp i’ll keep my fingers crossdd for u
I hope busy works too i just dont want to fixate on it and put my life on hold but at the same time do all the right things to give me the best chance possible, if that makes sence ?
Xx
Oh, I’m cautiously excited for you ilovebarney, but I can really understand your perspective. Hopefully an early scan will reveal a beautiful bubby in the right place.
XX
Wow ilovebarney, that’s great news! Keep us all posted! And I’ll keep everything crossed for you, remember to get booked in for your ASAP scan to check all is ok.
Today has been a great day for me too!
Went to the DR’s for our fertility test appointment,
Had a few bits done, the Nasty internal, and we got the pot to have the hubby semen tested which we will be doing tomorrow and returning straight to the lab, I’ve got bloods on Friday along with the dreaded smear test which I’m not looking forward to one bit!
However the doctor has said if all is ok they will start me in clomid due to my messed up periods ever since the EP,
So I’m really excised for the 1st time in over a year. I know it will take time to do all the tests ect ect and could even be another 6/9 months until I get the clomid, but for me it’s a huge step forward, and for the 1st time in ages I’ve not stopped smiling all day!
Shl, that’s exactly how we feel. It’s such a tough balance between getting on with life and not being to obsessed, whilst still giving ourselves the best chance. It makes my mind do flip flops just thinking about it sometimes!