Hey, all. Thank you for letting me be a part of this group. I’m feeling pretty lost and broken. My fiance and I lost 3 babies altogether. One miscarriage, and 2 ectopic pregnancies. I had to have an oophorectomy both times, and thankfully have one ovary left, but no fallopian tubes. Our angel baby Robert was 8 weeks old, we lost him March 1st 2022, and our other angel baby was 6 weeks old and we lost them on June 12th 2025. I think the worst part is we found out we were pregnant and lost our babies on the same day, both times. I feel horrible 
Hi MD,
My heart goes out to you for what you are going through. I am so very sorry you are having to experience an ectopic pregnancy and loss again. It is so very recent, and it is completely normal to being feeling the emotions you are. The loss is both a physical and emotional trauma, and each recovery is so very unique.
It’s incredibly important to look after yourself right now. I found that journalling helped me to capture the range of thoughts and emotions I was having after my two ectopic pregnancies. It also helped me to organize my thoughts to share with my partner, friends and family. It can be difficult for others to how what to say or how the experience feels, if they have not been through it. It was hard for me to figure out how to share what I was feeling.
We are here for you. These boards are a safe space to share, ask questions, or to vent. They are filled with people who have been through similar experiences and journeys, and we are here for you for as long as you need.
Please take time for yourself.
With good wishes,
Michele
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