I had my tube removed on 12th Jan and just taking test to check negative, anyone else felt really empty at this moment, so strange hoping for a negative when I spend all my time praying for a positive when trying for a family! Desperate to speak to people who know how I feel xxxx
Hi Char1986,
I’m so sorry to hear that you have suffered and ectopic pregnancy and loss. Your surgery was still quite recent, and during this recovery period it is so important to look after yourself. After an ectopic pregnancy, It is normal to have a mix of emotions, especially over thoughts of trying to conceive.
I did want to advise you that in general the Trust suggests that couples to wait at least two full menstrual cycles or three months before trying to conceive again. This is to allow time for your body to heal and emotions to surface and be worked through. However, you can start taking folic acid now. It is recommended to take folic acid for at least 12 weeks prior to conception.
These boards are a safe space for you to share your feelings, ask questions or just to vent. We are here for your as long as you need.
With good wishes,
Michele
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Hi Char1986
I had my left tube removed on 16 Jan. I also did a pregnancy test a couple of days ago as I wanted to check my hormone levels were back down to non-pregnancy levels (and they were).
All I really want to do is get back to trying to conceive. I feel like I’ve already been waiting ages and this period is really dragging on. I have PCOS though so I don’t ovulate on my own, so I’ve got to wait till the hospital allow me to have another round of fertility treatment.
Hope you feel better soon. Thinking of you
Xx
Hi,
I had an ectopic pregnancy in November , I was treated with Methotrexate, my hormone levels was going up and down it was so frustrating. I remember praying for a negative result which after 18 months of hoping for a positive was heartbreaking. I know exactly what you are going through and you are not alone xxxx