Hi,
I have never posted here before, but I am just feeling so lost and alone I feel as though this may help…Im not sure how, I guess just looking for some comfort.
Im 20, I never thought about having kids and I knew I was far from being ready. After being in intense pain for about 2 days, I took a pregnancy test, it was positive and given the pain I was in I knew something was wrong so I went straight to the emergency room. Its been 3 months since I had my surgery and had my left fallopian tube removed. I was a wreck throughout the entire experience, but i kept telling myself that I would be fine, I didnt want kids and I was so young and I would be able to move on and get past it. Since that day I still have trouble sleeping every night, i have to force myself to eat, I feel so numb and I feel like I have no one to talk to. I dont even know how to put in to words the way I feel everyday. Im just confused, I didnt want a baby, i knew i was pregnant for only 1 hour before I found out what was really going on, yet I still feel as though I have completely lost a part of myself. i feel like no one understands and i cant talk to anyone. I guess I am hoping that in writing here is that I will find some way to heal, to stop hating myself for not being able to prevent this, to help me understand how i feel this broken despite not being the slightest bit ready for motherhood. I cry myself to sleep too many nights now. I want to feel less confused about all of this, less angry and less alone