Hi Rosalie95,
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss. It is natural to be worried after everything you have been through.
The decision to ttc following an ectopic pregnancy brings up so many emotions and questions. After our ectopic pregnancies, we become more knowledgeable about what could happen and this becomes part of our decision making. It took me a very long time to become comfortable with the idea of trying again, over a year. Part of the decision came because I had started to forget a little bit of the immediate trauma, another part was a surrender of control. Neither was easy and I did feel anxious during the pregnancy. It’s very important to take the decision to ttc in your own time, even if it takes longer than you hoped.
There are women on these boards who have conceived after IVF. Sadly, even with IVF, there is the risk of ectopic pregnancy. However, it is important to remember that help is available, and your doctors should book you in for an early scan at around six weeks to check that the embryo is in the right place. I am not sure where you are located, but if you are in the UK, you can also contact your local Early Pregnancy Unit directly and self-refer for an early scan. This can also give you peace of mind that you have the care available should you need some reassurance.
No matter what, we are here for you for anything you need. For as long as you need.
With good wishes,
Michele
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