I wish you ladies the best of luck. I just (yesterday) had surgery for my 2nd C scar pregnancy. The first failed on its own but the 2nd we terminated and had the surgery just yesterday - after a very long “treatment” process; it was a very heart breaking experience.
I RESPECT anyone’s choices. But, I do caution you to be careful with your research. We have an AMAZING hospital nearby which treats ALL of C-scar pregnancies in a multi-state area (They see about 1 new one a week). They had more facts and statistics to offer than most hospitals, although they did reach out to other institutions when they were gathering information for me. It does matter which direction the baby “grows” but no where, in any of the research we received through them and elsewhere, did we find anything close to a 10% risk. I’m not saying this to scare anyone and I don’t feel that we were “pushed” to to anything against our beliefs; I just strongly feel that knowledge is power and would encourage you to research as much as possible. When we had decided to not terminate our first scar pregnancy, we did learn that when - not “if” - I ruptured, we would have 17-18 minutes to receive medical help before I bled out so, staying closer to the hospital would have been key for us (I was not worried for my life even with that information - that seemed “manageable” and the rates for maternal life were the high ones). Anyway, please learn as much as you can - you now have 2 lives depending on some of your decisions. I really do wish you the VERY best!