Hi Mrsfrutie,
I am so sorry to hear of the worrying time you and your partner are going through. You are right that Caesarean section ectopic pregnancy is still relatively uncommon and so some hospitals see very few of them. We have information here on our website specifically for healthcare professionals on c-scar ectopic and you may some of this of value: https://ectopic.org.uk/what-is-an-ectopic-pregnancy
The treatment of cesarean scar pregnancies is potentially difficult, so management has to be individualized on a case-by-case basis. It is hugely important to speak to your doctors about your treatment. They have access to your medical records and are best placed to guide you. Enduring an ectopic pregnancy is extremely difficult, particularly in circumstances where such hard decisions need to be made. I understand the toll it takes on women and their families especially where there are no clear answers. You are right that there are, sadly, risks with each option, and your doctors are best placed to guide you in light of these very demanding (both physically and emotionally) circumstances.
What I can say is that as you have concerns, you are entitled to discuss these with her doctors and even seek a further opinion. As much as I wish I could give you additional guidance, I am afraid I have no definitive answers as I am not medically qualified. You are perfectly entitled to speak to her doctors again (and indeed as much as you wish) about how you are now feeling and seek the opinion of another consultant, too, if that may help you think things through.
With good wishes,
Michele
The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
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