I have had 2 ectopics ( oct 2013 , march 2014 ) , a lap & dye showed I have clear tubes so we tried again and I got pregnant but miscarried at 8 weeks ( feb 2015) . I am 6 weeks pregnant and about to go for a scan as I have been bleeding just like I did with the previous 2 ectopics . I feel like I can’t cope anymore .
Had a scan - it is ectopic so I have surgery in the morning to remove my remaining tube . I’m trying to be positive and hopeful that IVF will work . Onwards and upwards ! I just want this surgery out if the way now . There ectopics is plan bad luck !
In a lot of pain and still exhausted from the surgery . Feeling guilty for not being in work since this is the third time it’s happened . All I can do is rest and sleep at the moment .
My husband is going to ring the IVF clinic soon , since we were already accepted as patients before this ectopic I feel happy that we don’t have to wait to see of we will be accepted . I’m just scared it won’t work though , and with no tubes left it’s my only hope .
I’m so sorry to read what you are going through Life can be cruel.
I am having a second ectopic pregnancy in 10 months; last time they removed my right tube and this time I’m being treated with methotrexate. They will let us try again naturally for six months if I don’t fall pg then we will have to be referred for IVF. You mentioned that you have already been accepted for IVF, is there a weight restriction for the male? My husband is broad and would be classed as overweight. Do you know if this will effect us being able to be accepted for IVF if needed? X