Hi ladies, firstly I want to send you huge hugs and so much love as I can relate to what you are going through, it’s heartbreaking and cruel and unless you’ve been through it, very hard to comprehend and understand…
5 years ago today my heart broke into a zillion peices, I had my ectopic. I lost my baby I had dreamed of and my tube and had the remaining damaged tube repaired. I am now sitting here, feeling very incredibly blessed with my 3 year old boy and 8 month old girl & I want to give anyone reading this some hope & some strength to get through this hard time.
I would recommend counselling, talking about your feelings or writing them down in a diary (this helped me) and this forum was amazing. I felt like everything was against me, at the time, everyone seemed to be pregnant or announcing their pregnancy.
It’s a cliche but time really is the greatest healer, give yourself time to grieve, love your self and look after yourself, you’re allowed to be angry, sad, jealous, cry and let it out and give yourself time. Try to be open with your partner as you need the support.
Hang on in there & try to be strong and positive & before long, you’ll have your story of hope, miracles really do happen. Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx