In 2015 I woke up one morning in horrific pain, i had no idea I was pregnant after having a bleed the week before i thought was a period, I was taken to A&E to be told I was having an ectopic pregnancy, was taken straight to theatre and when all was over the consultant used the words âadvanced ectopicâ and that due to the health of the tube the pregnancy wasnât in ( which I believe is unhealthy due to contracting an STD back when I was 16 ) he didnât remove the tube and managed to get the pregnancy out without removal of tube so I have both tubes.
I went to have a dye test through my tubes which indicated the ectopic tube was open and working but the other one was open but closed at the ovary side so it was blocked at that side by scarring, its been 5 years this month and I have never ever conceived since still with the same partner who I conceived with 5 years ago, I do have a 8 year old little boy from a previous relationship aswell so I know the unhealthy tube didnt cause me issues with him, I have had tests which shows i so ovulate but my cycles are always anywhere between 30-40 days, so although not entirely irregular they are not on certain dates like other women, I have been suffering with mental health issues ever since, and I feel like Iâm never going to have my baby with my partner and it breaks my heart, I just wondered what was the longest time it took for others to conceive