I’ve had two ectopic pregnancies in the last ten months. I am surprisingly, somehow pregnant again. I didn’t think it was going to happen and I didn’t feel the way I did the last times I was pregnant. I knew I was pregnant before the tests!
So now I am on the razor of believing it’s going to be okay this time, I feel different so it has to mean something, being afraid that it’s ectopic or that I am going to have a miscarriage. It’s still super early so I will go in when I’m 5.5 weeks for the dreaded transvaginal scan and to check the HcG in my blood.
I cried when I told my husband a mixture of feelings and we both looked at each other, took deep breaths and said here we go.
So here we go…
Good luck, I really hope it all goes well for you.
I have had one ectopic in June this year and my husband and I are trying again, but it’s scary worrying x
Dear urbanfervour,
Whispered congratulations on your pregnancy,
After an ectopic pregnancy, finding we are pregnant again can be a mix of emotions and I can completely understand your feeling nervous. It is perfectly normal to feel scared after the ordeal you have endured.
It is a nerve-wracking time and you have friends here who understands how you are feeling.
Sending much love and positive thoughts,
Karen x
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I couldn’t wait any longer and had some pains so I went to a&e today and it looks like it’s in the right spot. I wanted a 100% it’s not ectopic but no doctor would say it. They said given my history we need to wait but that they would classify it as an interuterine pregnancy.
All day I was mentally preparing for MTX, time off work, the darkness of a broken heart and now I am in disbelief. I don’t trust it. Now I’m worried about a miscarriage. I just now need the next six weeks to go by smoothly!
Hi!I I’m just wondering how you are and if all is well? 