Pregnant after PUL - Positive stories welcome

Pregnant After Ectopic Pregnancy
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Hi,

I had an PUL in October 2020 treated with 2 lots of methotrexate. I had spotting then heavy bleeding with that pregnancy but never pain.

Finally pregnant after 17 months of trying and sitting at 5 + 5 weeks and days.

My symptoms come and go and I have had some heaviness in the centre of my lower abdo where my uterus would be, but have also had some pulling and sharp twinges on my left side.

I started to get left sided issues about six months after my methotrexate treatment when I done a huge diet change so I have had some pains there prior to being pregnant, but having them now I’m absolutely petrified and scared going to the toilet incase I see it again.

I guess I just really want some positive stories of those who have had pain in their next pregnancy and gone on to be okay.

Thank you!!!

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Dear Siobhaunjose,

Whispered congratulations on your pregnancy,

After an ectopic pregnancy, finding we are pregnant again can be a mix of emotions and I can completely understand your feeling nervous. It is perfectly normal to feel scared after our previous experience. When I next fell pregnant I also suffered from aches and twinges and my mind started racing and I was only really able to relax to some degree after my early scan. It is a nerve-wracking time and you have friends here who understand how you are feeling.

Although I do not wish to alarm you, as pain is so subjective, if your symptoms are worsening or concerning you at all, I would suggest seeking urgent medical advice.

I wish I could give you a way to pass the time. Try to keep your mind as busy as you can. Reading, box sets, going for walks, meeting friends etc. We of course are here for you too.

Don’t forget to book in for your early scan at around 6 weeks. You can do this by calling your local EPU directly and reminding them of your previous ectopic pregnancy. If they do not accept direct patient referrals, please speak to your GP practice who will be able to arrange this for you.

Sending much love and positive thoughts,

Karen x

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