Hi,
I had a salpingectomy on the 1st of July (10 days ago since writing this post), and had one of my fallopian tubes removed.
I had my first period on the 9th of July, which has only lasted 3 days. I have read a lot online that it’s only normal to have a period around 6 weeks later, is my period abnormal?
I have also read that sex is OK after the first period, however as I’m not sure if my period was normal with it being so soon, I’m wondering if I can have sex?
Thank you!!
Hi louisefrances,
I’m so sorry to hear that you have suffered this ectopic pregnancy and loss. While I’m not medically qualified to comment on your specific situation, I will do my best to help.
The bleed that occurs in the first week or so of treatment for an ectopic pregnancy is not your first period. It is the bleed that occurs in response to falling hormones associated with the lost pregnancy. Physically, this timeframe allows your cycle to return to normal and for a clear period to date a new pregnancy from. The date of the first day of the period is what is used to decide when to scan a new pregnancy; information that is invaluable in ensuring you are not suffering from another ectopic pregnancy.
The Trust recommends waiting three months to conceive. While there is no clear, researched evidence on how long a couple should wait to try to conceive after having treatment for ectopic pregnancy, we and other medical professionals advise that it may be best to wait for at least three months or two full menstrual cycles (periods) before trying to conceive for both physical and emotional reasons.
If you are not ttc, I would encourage you to follow your Dr’s guidance on physical recovery from the surgery and to use protection.
With good wishes,
Michele
The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
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