How to begin…
I wasn’t trying to fall pregnant I was taking the pill how I had for 7 Years. When I was late for my period i took a test (Just to put it out of my mind, wasn’t expecting it to be positive at all) I honestly wasn’t sure how I felt and how my partner would take the news.
Once sitting down and talking we really couldn’t be happier. With telling only parents and grandparents (well them questioning as they know me to well!) Things where amazing. I was eating right, doing all the ‘right’ things to do.
I was enjoying a lunch break with work colleagues when all of a sudden I had really bad pains, lucky for me I work at the same place as my partner as he saw me, he told me I needed to get to the hospital.
So off we went to St Thomas’s hospital. We where referred to the early pregnancy ward, where i cant fault the service i received there.
Our world came crumbling down when 3 nurses had confirmed I was experiencing a ETP. I was then admitted into hospital to be operated on the next day to remove the pregnancy and my right tube. I was devastated, and couldn’t understand why this was happening.
Since the operation I have had two more operations as of further complications, so 5 months after and i finally have the all clear!!
My partner and I feel we are ready to try again, Its so scary the thought of anything happening again.
I have only joined today, and will look forward to reading your story’s and experiences. I have never met anyone that has been through this and will be nice to talk to people who understand.
I will never get over my loss but hope I can put all my love into a baby and be able to give them the best possible life.
Thanks