Miscarriage after ectopic.

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Anyone else been through a ectopic pregnant. I had a operation in October and had my tube and ovary removed. I haven’t really acknowledged why I’ve been through until last week I was taking into hospital after having a miscarriage. Now I’m really struggling, is it my fault ? Is it because I had the ectopic? Since last week I’m waking up throughout the night seeing the day of my operation over and over. As it all happened so quick as I had internal bleeding. Who can I speak to for help and will I be able to have another baby. I would be happy to hear any stories that people have been through similar. Really struggling and don’t want to speak to anyone face to face. Thank you xx

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Hi Kshannon0,

I’m so sorry to hear that you have experienced both an ectopic pregnancy and miscarriage. These boards are full of women and men who have been through these experiences, and I want you to know that you are supported here. Ectopic pregnancies and loss are both physical and emotional traumas, and we can feel these traumas even after the immediate event.

Sometimes these feelings are hard to communicate with others, and for that reason, we at the Trust believe that talking through what happened and your emotions as and when you can help the healing process. We operate a helpline service, and there’s no pressure whatsoever but if you or your wife would ever like the opportunity to speak over the phone to someone who has been through a similar experience, do feel free to call, details are below. We can take things at your pace entirely, and you are free to ask any questions that are on your mind. You can talk about the ordeal you have been through and express your feelings to vent and let off some steam. We can exchange emails too if you prefer that route.

Also, you can ask to see a GP at your practice and ask them to explore ways in which you can get help, and this can include referrals for “talking therapies” or counselling. The charity Mind may also be of assistance. They have local centres and support groups and can offer services on a means-tested basis or sometimes free. You can find your local centre following this link if that may be useful too: http://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/local-minds/

No matter what, we are here for you whenever you need. Please know you are not alone and take all the time you need to look after yourself and your wife’s recovery. We are here for you whenever you want to talk.

With good wishes,

Michele

The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust

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