Methotrexate injection after eptopic pregancy

Pregnant After Ectopic Pregnancy
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Hi,

A short while after finding out we were pregnant with our second baby, I started with unbelievable pains around my tummy and back. We visited A&E who referred us for a scan with the EPAU.

The scan revealed the devasting news that the pregancy was eptopic.

Luckily we had caught it early and the baby was still very small, so I wouldn’t need to have surgery on this occasion although the option was still there if I wanted to take it.

The Dr’s and fantastic midwifes talked us though our options, methotrexate injection which would prevent the baby from growing any bigger.

I took the methotrexate injection, but I can’t say that was the easy ways out! I returned after say 4 and 7 but unfortunately my bloods hadn’t gone down as they would of liked, I had a scan what revealed the ‘mass’ were the baby was had actually grown. They think it was maybe bleeding into itself.

The pain had actually easied and I was feeling a little better in myself. But unfortunately I had to have another methotrexate injection and return for my bloods on day 4 and 7 again .

Luckily the second time around my blood had dropped by 17.5% :tada: I’m still in a bit of pain, but I’m hoping over the next week it will settle.

Now I feel like I’m in the clear it’s started to hit me that iv lost my baby, I know I was only 6 weeks and it wasn’t a ‘baby’ but it hurts.

I know if the baby had stayed in me it would of only caused me damaged but I can’t help to think I killed it by having the injections.

I also have a massive regret, that I didn’t have the surgery in the first place, not only to prevent all the back and forth to hospital but also so I could of had the baby out and at least said goodbye.

I think this sounds a little silly and I’m finding it difficult to speak to anyone about it.

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Hi Sedi509,

I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss. It’s important for you to remember that there was nothing you did to cause nor nothing that could have prevented an ectopic pregnancy. Many women experience a mix of feelings and this can include grief, hurt at loss and anger. Trying not to blame yourself is important, as it is no fault of yours, and nothing sadly could have been done from stopping the ectopic pregnancy or miscarriage from happening.

Physical recovery is often quicker than emotional recovery. We operate a helpline service, and there’s no pressure whatsoever but if you would ever like the opportunity to speak over the phone to someone who has been through a similar experience, do feel free to call, details are below. We can take things at your pace entirely, and you are free to ask any questions that are on your mind. You can talk about the ordeal you have been through and express your feelings to vent and let off some steam. We can exchange emails too if you prefer that route.

Also, you can ask to see a GP at your practice and ask them to explore ways in which you can get help, and this can include referrals for “talking therapies” or counselling. We have information on our website about finding counselling services. The charity Mind may also be of assistance. They have local centres and support groups and can offer services on a means-tested basis or sometimes free. You can find your local centre following this link if that may be useful too: http://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/local-minds/

No matter what, we are here for you whenever you need us. Please know you are not alone and take all the time you need to look after yourself and recover. We are here for you whenever you want to talk.

With good wishes,

Michele

The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust

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