Hey everyone,
I recently had major emergency to remove my right fallopian tube, as it had ruptured due to an ectopic pregnancy. Looking back at my experience at the hospital, I’m left feeling confused and cheated of what I feel, should have been the correct treatment.
I was 6 weeks pregnant and had suffered with spotting throughout the pregnancy and had sudden bad cramps on the right hand side. When the pain got worse after 36hrs I called 111 and they advised me to go to A&E. I waited a few hours and was seen by a gynecologist. I entered the room and she asked me a few questions and she then received a phone call which she answered. She was having a heated conversation with someone saying things like ‘I’m definitely on Gyno this week, you must be looking at last weeks rota’ etc, I felt this was a little bit unprofessional but didn’t think much of it at the time.
I had an internal exam where she confirmed that my cervix was closed and everything looked as it should be. She also checked my stomach by pressing it with her hands. When she touched the right hand side I visibly flinched and pushed her hand away as this was so sore. She didn’t seem to think this was a problem as she never mentioned ectopic pregnancy to me, although she did book me in for a scan the following day.
In the morning the next day I started to feel feverish as the pain got worse, but I felt reassured about what the doctor had said the day before so I just waited for my scan later that day.
When I had my scan they confirmed it was ectopic and that I would need surgery to remove my right tube as it had already ruptured. This was really scary to me. The doctors explained that they would try keyhole surgery (laparoscopy) first to remove the tube and if I had lost too much blood they would have to cut me open (laparotomy). I signed the consent forms and waited for surgery.
When it was time to go through, I was intoduced to the anaesthetists who explained what would be happening. While they were talking to me a woman (I assume the surgeon) appeared next to me shouting to the other members of staff ‘Where are the medical word for laparoscopy cameras’ ‘Can someone get me one in the next 5 minutes’ ‘How can I be expected to work like this?!’ clearly distressed. This made me feel really anxious which was noticable to one of the anaesthetists who told me ‘Don’t worry, this is about a completely different surgery’. Another of the anaesthetists asked the surgeon ‘Do you still want to go ahead?’ and she responded by saying ‘Yes’, looked and me and said ‘We will just have to open you up!’.
When I came around, the doctor admitted to me that they had run out of the necessary equipment to perform a laparoscopy, so I had a laparotomy instead. I had only lost 200ml of blood, which they said wasn’t a lot, so I feel it should have been possible for them to perform the laparoscopy.
I just feel really sad that first of all, the gynecologist seemed more interested in her shifts than my symptoms and had she booked me in for an emergency scan I could have possibly had methotrexate and saved my tube. And secondly, I could have possibly had a far less invasive surgery if the hospital had the correct equipment. I now have a 5inch scar across my stomach with a 6 week recovery period. I just can’t believe that hospital staff can run out of equipment needed for emergency surgeries - but maybe this happens more than I think?
Has anyone else gone through a similar experience?
On another note, I’m also left feeling really worried about my fertility. I have been getting painful stabbing pains on the opposite side to the one that was removed. Has anyone else experienced this?
I understand at this point there is nothing I can do but I just wanted to hear everyone elses thoughts and experiences.
Thank you for taking the time to read this