Hey, it’s been 6weeks since I had my ectopic I had surgery an had my left tube removed. My head is all over the place what if I can’t conceive again. Me an my partner split after my surgery because he didn’t understand how I felt. I’m so scared what I won’t be able to have a baby I’m debating weather the have it all taken away I’ve had 3 miscarriages prior to my ectpic. I’ve never felt so low an messed up in my own head as I do right now.
Hi there, sorry to hear you are having such a tough time of it and you’ve had the added blow of your relationship breaking down.
You are still in the very early stages of grief and shock so be kind to yourself and go with your fears and anxieties they are perfectly normal. I am seven months post surgery and still feel the anxiety about future fertility but I guess time has helped and I feel a lot more optimistic.
Go and see hour gp have a chat about your worries particularly given your history with miscarriage and fund out what the options available to you are I’d when you are ready you find it difficult to conceive. Just knowing there are options is sometimes enough to curb some of the anxiety.
You have been through so much but know that things will get lighter and better and you will come through this a stronger person xx
I’m now 9weeks post op an still not had my period I’m starting to become scared incase my body has just given up xx