Hi all,
I’ve just had a positive pregnancy test at 5+3 after a right sided ruptured ectopic in December. I had a salpigectomy and lost the right tube. I have subsequently moved house and, therefore NHS trust. The previous trust were amazing and have a standard 6+2 early scan to catch things early and save my remaining tube. This new Trust however say they won’t scan me before 8 weeks (despite knowing my history). They say it’s because I sound like I am in good health and the risk is that an early scan may show nothing and cause unnecessary anxiety (ironically!!).
Obviously this is hugely concerning as NICE guidelines say 6-7 weeks and by 8 weeks it could all be too late. Last time I had ruptured tube with a still growing foetus at 8weeks and had almost no symptoms (I had no pain, no bleeding, just a niggle that something was wrong and weirdly I was right!),by the time I went in it was nearly too late for me and I’m guessing 8 weeks is often too late for most tubes to survive.
I am not really sure what to do now (aside from sit and worry and drive myself mad obviously!). Whilst I know there’s nothing I can do about this pregnancy being ectopic or not, I feel waiting 8 weeks will significantly increase the risk of a potential surgical salpigectomy rather than methotrexate and thus increase the risk of me losing me my final tube and entering a whole new world of fertility nightmares at 38, all perhaps unnecessarily!
So my question, should I go private? There is a nearby company that do a 6week plus scan for about £60. Or do I trust the NHS professionals, control my fear, think positive and wait 8 weeks?
Here’s hoping the pregnancy is all ok regardless but I know you all understand this feeling of helplessness.
Thanks for reading this thesis!