Dear Steph1988,
Whispered congratulations on your pregnancy and I am sorry to hear of the worrying time you are going through.
We would always recommend an early pregnancy scan at around 6 weeks. If you are in the UK, NICE, national guidance also supports this- the extract below is from the NICE guidance, I have added the link to the document.
“Advise the woman that she should inform her GP as soon a possible about any future pregnancy so that an ultrasound scan can be arranged at 6–7 weeks to establish the location and viability of the pregnancy”
https://cks.nice.org.uk/ectopic-pregnancy#!scenario:1
If they insist on waiting until 8 weeks for a scan, i would suggest asking why they are going against NICE guidance. You could also discuss this with the Patient Advice Liaison Service (PALS) who deal with matters of complaints.
I am so sorry you are having to go through such a worrying time. Although, I do not wish to alarm you, I do have to advise that if you experience any bleeding, abdominal pain, shoulder tip pain, have any bladder or bowel problems or feel dizzy and unwell to seek urgent medical advice by attending your local A&E.
Sending much love and positive thoughts,
Karen x
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