Confused and concerned.

I had an ectopic pregnancy last September. I was 9weeks and 5 days with no pain. I went in to have my first ultrasound and the next day I was having emergency surgery to remove the baby and my right tube.

I’ve had a period every month except this one.

I am now 12 days late and tested negative 3 times with at home tests.

I started to bleed today, I’m not sure if it’s spotting or my period. I haven’t bled enough to soak a pad completely. I have also only been cramping on my right side.

I have an appointment this coming Tuesday but my mind is in overdrive.

Dear Michah,

Doctors normally consider menstrual cycles of between 23-42 days to be within normal parameters. I am glad you have an appointment with your doctor. Although I do not wish to alarm you, I would advise to seek urgent medical advice with any worsening symptoms.

Sending much love,

Karen x

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