Hi, my story is a difficult one and I’m struggling with both news and loss. I had an ectopic pregnancy in 2015 which ruptured required immediate surgery and loss of my tube. In 2016 I did go on to have a healthy pregnancy and had my son. I always wanted, dreamed of a family. I struggled to come to terms with my first ectopic as it reduced my fertility but I lucky enough to have a positive pregnancy. I found out 4 weeks ago I was pregnant, I was so happy as it would be my last chance but I started to see the familiar warning signs. After blood tests and scans it was confirmed it was another ectopic and close to ending the same way, I had surgery and lost my other fallopian tube. Unfortunately my hcg started to increase again and after extensive investigation I’ve been diagnosed with Salpingitis isthmica nodosa (SIN) and is why I had ectopics. Because of this I still have remaining tissue and require methotrexate as well to clear this. I feel like I have been to hell and back, I’m struggling to come to terms with everything and that my fertility is now gone and moving forward seems more difficult than ever.
Just want to say how strong you are and that I’m thinking of you. You are not alone. I wish I could say something more useful. But you WILL make it through this. Thoughts, love and prayers your way.
Dear Angela,
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy losses and everything you are going through.
Losing the chance to conceive naturally can be completely devastating and your feelings are completely normal.
You are still dealing with a life threatening emergency and it’s treatment, the loss of your baby and fertility. This can be a traumatic experience and it can take up to 3 months to even begin to process traumatic events such as these.I
Please be kind to yourself and allow time to grieve and heal both physically and emotionally.
We will be here for you for as long as you need, we also have emails and telephone calls if you are struggling and would like more personal support,. Details below.
Sending much love and warm hugs,
Karen x
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