Hello everyone,
I had an Ectopic pregnancy 10 months ago and resulted into my tube being removed on my left side, I’m so nervous this time around because of what happened and how bad my experience actually was, All I would love is to have a bit of joy after the year I have had and I’m so looking forward to the future, I hope someone could put my mind at ease, thankyou so much 
Dear Holly1999,
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss,
I very much understand that strong desire to conceive. I appreciate how frustrating it can be if it isn’t happening as quickly as we would like. Conceiving successfully can take time and can take some couples more than a year or so.
While generally it is possible to conceive after an ectopic pregnancy, the amount of time it takes varies from couple to couple. Factors include age, general health, reproductive health and how often you have sex, among other things. It may be comforting to know that 65% of women are successfully pregnant within 18 months of experiencing an ectopic pregnancy and some studies suggest this rises to around 85% after two years.
In addition. having regular sex means having sex every 2/3 days throughout the month. Guidance from the UK’s National Institute of Health and Clinical Excellence advises that having sex around the time when the woman ovulates causes stress and is not recommended. We here at the EPT suggest having intercourse 2/3 times between days 10-20 of their cycle when trying to conceive. We also have information on our website on trying to conceive here: https://ectopic.org.uk/patients/trying-to-conceive/
Generally, when a person has only one fallopian tube and both ovaries, they are still able to get pregnant from an egg at the opposite ovary as an egg from one ovary can travel down the tube on the other side. The fallopian tubes are not attached to the ovaries and, at the point of ovulation, some very delicate structures called the fimbriae begin to move gently creating a slight vacuum to suck the egg toward the end of the tube it is nearest to (like lots of little fingers waving and drawing the egg towards it). So, if you have only one tube then there is only one set of receptors working and one set of fimbriae creating a vacuum and so the egg is much more likely to find its way to that tube, whichever ovary it is produced from. Conservative estimates suggest that an egg produced on the tubeless side manages to descend the remaining tube around 15 to 20% of the time.
It is normal to feel anxious about the future. We experience a mix of emotions from wanting to try again to being petrified of what may lie ahead. We never forget but we can learn to accept what happened. Importantly early scans avail. As soon as you know you are pregnant, contact your local EPU to inform them and book in for an early scan at around six weeks. Remind them of your previous ectopic pregnancy. This self refer route is the best route in our view. Hopefully you will have some comfort to know you are under the radar of medical professionals right away.
Sending much love,
Karen x
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Hi Holly1999,
Thank you for sharing. I also went through the same experience with my ectopic pregnancy resulting in removal of my left Fallopian tube last year.
It was such an ordeal to go through both physically and mentally although it’s positive to read you are trying again.
We began trying again and managed to conceive. I’m now 33 weeks pregnant so it is possible! It’s much easier said than done (I know from experience) but please try to stay positive and I wish it works out for you soon.
Take care
Hello Ozno how long it take you to conceive.
We are trying now 3 months but nothing my period is not how was and I am worrying something it’s not ok but doctors doesn’t pay me attention.
Did you make some test, hormones etc?