I have previously had 2 ectopic pregnancies, one in 2022 which resulted in surgery and my right tube being removed. I had a second in December 2023 which was treated with Methotrexate and we were told because of the treatment we couldn’t conceive for 3 months as it could affect another pregnancy. We have only just gotten to the end of the 3 months at the start of March and we tried again and I have found out I am pregnant. I don’t know if it’s my body playing tricks on me or if I am experiencing the same symptoms again. I have pain in my left side, very light spotting and discomfort or pressure when going to the toilet. I will speak to my GP but I just don’t understand how this can happen a third time? I need hope and success stories after having 3 ectopics as I am really starting to lose faith I will ever have children.
Dear em,
Whispered congratulations on your pregnancy,
After an ectopic pregnancy, finding we are pregnant again can be a mix of emotions and I can completely understand your feeling nervous. It is perfectly normal to feel scared after the ordeal you have endured. I also felt twinges and aches after my ectopic pregnancy, particularly when I next felt pregnant. My mind started racing and I was only really able to relax to some degree after my early scan. It is a nerve-wracking time and you have friends here who understand how you are feeling.
Speaking from UK medical practice and standards, usually doctors carry out an internal transvaginal scan at around six weeks with subsequent pregnancies after an ectopic. This is because there is a reasonable chance of seeing an embryo around this six week mark. We advise contacting your local EPU, reminding them of your ectopic pregnancy and booking an appointment. If you are unable to self refer, contact your GP who will be able to do this for you.
Whilst I do not wish to alarm you, I sadly have to remind you that if you experience any unusual bleeding, abdominal pain, shoulder tip pain, bladder or bowel problems or feel dizzy and unwell to seek urgent medical advice.
Sending much love and positive thoughts,
Karen x
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