Hi all. I was just wondering when is a normal time for your period to return after keyhole surgery?
I suffered an ectopic pregnancy nearly 8 weeks ago and still no sign of my period arriving. I’m finding it a bit frustrating as I want to feel back to normal in a sense of my cycle resuming, also in terms of being intimate again with my husband. I still feel awkward because it hasn’t returned so not sure if I can be.
Anyway just wondering if anyone else had to wait a wee while for it to return.
Lx
Dear L,
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy and loss,
Your periods can take a while to re-establish - they can re-start anything between two and ten weeks after surgery and most women find that their period arrives sometime around week six or seven after surgery.
The first period may be more painful or less so than usual, heavier or lighter, last for longer or shorter than usual – there really is no set pattern. You should be able to manage the discomfort with over-the-counter pain relief and should not be soaking a pad in less than an hour. If this is not the case, you should seek medical attention
I thought I’d mention that before having a period you have to ovulate and it is possible to become pregnant without having a proper period first, if you are not using contraception. We and many doctors advise waiting at least two menstrual cycles before trying to conceive to allow time for your body to heal and emotions to surface.
Sending much love,
Karen x
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Thanks for your reply. Of course they started this weekend just ate my post! It’s was heavy but getting lighter now! Felt weird. I was glad my body had returned to normal in a way but also sad that reality is back!
Lx