Nervous wreck (pregnant after an ectopic in May)

Pregnant After Ectopic Pregnancy
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Hello.

In some miracle, I’ve discovered I’m pregnant. I’ve taken several positive tests over the weekend and according to my app I’m Week 4 +4 today. I can’t quite believe it, I’m elated but also pretty terrified about the next few weeks. I so desperately hope it works this time.

I’m not really sure what I should do, who I need to speak to etc. I vaguely remember someone saying at the hospital in May (when I had an ectopic pregnancy and had my right tube removed) that I would need to get checked earlier than normal if I became pregnant in the future? Can you advise please?

Also does anyone have any tips to keep calm until I get scanned? I’m testing daily, worried every time I go to the toilet, worried about what I’m eating, applying to my skin etc. i just want to do everything I can to give me the best possible chance this time.

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Dear Katrina,

Whispered congratulations on your pregnancy.

After an ectopic pregnancy, finding we are pregnant again can be a mix of emotions and I can completely understand your feeling nervous. It is perfectly normal to feel scared after the ordeal you have endured. I felt twinges and aches after my ectopic pregnancy, particularly when I next felt pregnant. My mind started racing and I was only really able to relax to some degree after my early scan. It is a nerve-wracking time and you have friends here who understand how you are feeling.

Speaking from UK medical practice and standards, usually doctors carry out an internal transvaginal scan at around six weeks with subsequent pregnancies after an ectopic. This is because there is a reasonable chance of seeing an embryo around this six week mark.

We advise contacting your local EPU, reminding them of your ectopic pregnancy and booking an appointment. If you are unable to self refer, contact your GP surgery who will be able to do this for you.

Whilst I do not wish to alarm you, I sadly have to remind you that if you experience any unusual bleeding, abdominal pain, shoulder tip pain, bladder or bowel problems or feel dizzy and unwell to seek urgent medical advice.

We advise treating a pregnancy following ectopic pregnancy the same as any other pregnancy, so continue taking pregnancy vitamins as advised, not drinking alcohol, stopping smoking. Basic moisturiser for skin is absolutely fine, just speak to a doctor or pharmacist if you are using any medically prescribed creams or medicines that you are concerned about.

I know it’s a nerve wracking time, but try to keep your self distracted and as busy as possible. Catch up with family or friends, go for gentle walks, read books and watch box sets.

Sending much love and positive thoughts,

Karen x

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