Hi. I’m new here but old to the tragedy that took place abt 7 years ago. Seems like a long time ago but… I think I need to talk coz I’ve never discussed this with anyone. The only person in the world who knows abt it is me and my doctor who I never saw again. My tube was removed. My body scarred. It killed me inside for the first year and I still can’t help crying whenever I think of it. My story is very long and I’m afraid still to talk abt it. Is there any physical support group around. I don’t know if I’ll have the courage to talk even then but atleast I can try…
Dear Shanghai,
My heart goes out to you. We are so sorry you have suffered so much and you are not alone - we are all here and will do our best to help you thorough as friends.
There is no right timeline for recovery as we are each so unique, and during this time, it is so important to put yourself first and look after yourself. There is help available. It’s always worth revisiting your GP as they will be able to discuss all your treatment options with you. As well, you may consider reaching out to some voluntary organisations, such as Mind (http://www.mind.org.uk) which provide counselling free of charge or at a low cost.
We also have experience at supporting women and their families through ectopic pregnancy and miscarriage and are there for you if we can help with this. We are more than happy to talk with you on the email or telephone you and answer any questions you may have or simply listen about your experience. Our helpline is 020 7733 2653.
In a moment of crisis, A&E could be the best place to go or there are 24 hour helplines like the Samaritans on 08457 90 90 90.
Please know that we are hear for you anytime - to ask questions, to share or just to vent.
With good wishes,
Michele
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Thank you. That means a lot. I’ve been skirting this issue for too long. I think I should write all my feelings on a paper. I’ll also call the helpline.