Sorry you’ve been through this awful experience, I completely empathise with you. I personally have found the need to tell people what’s happened because I felt I needed that acknowledgement of my pregnancy, otherwise it was almost like it hadn’t happened and all i had was this picture of a prwgnancy test and my own thoughts and plans. People’s well intended comments to try and make you feel better are hard to deal with, lots of ‘everything happens for a reason’ when in actual fact that statement is utter rubbish and alls you want people to say is this is horrendous I’m so sorry you’ve lost your baby. I’ve actually found is easier to call people out on thier comments, not in a nasty way, but just replys like ‘it was our baby’ but just to make them think about what they have said. My friend worked in EPU and she has been great at validating my feelings its fine to be upset. I hope you can get some support from a good friend x