Hi
I found out I was pregnant with my 3rd on the 9th august and thought I was about 5 weeks, I got a little bump and was considering and early scan but decided to wait. I started bleeding on the 19th sept. Had a weekend of hell of being fobbed off so on the Monday after chasing and chasing for a referral for early pregnancy and being told by my own midwife ‘she was driving and couldn’t deal with me and to be honest there wouldn’t be anything early pregnancy could do for me anyway’ I was seen by them on the Wednesday. Told I had no baby and they weren’t sure what they were looking at so sent for hcg blood tests. Things got really bad pain and bleeding wise on the Friday and with an Open access letter for gynie I went up there. Examined by a Dr who told me it can’t be ectopic because my cervix was open he removed something and sent it for testing and made me sign a form to say they’d cremate it. I had a blood test the following day and was told Monday by early pregnancy they still weren’t happy with my levels as they were going down so slowly. Another blood test still not happy come in for a scan. Had the scan this Thursday just gone the sonographer told me there’s still a lot left inside to come out, nurse said she’ll get consultant to look at everything and push for medication to speed things along. Consultant not happy with what they saw on first scan still can’t rule out ectopic and another blood test scheduled for Monday.
Sorry for long post but I just feel lost. It’s coming up for three weeks since this began I have no answers my head is all over the place is it ectopic am I at risk? Is it a miscarriage the longer this all stays inside me I’m at risk of infection? I just want this whole thing over and I feel like I’m getting no answers and the only time I’m going to get answers is if something bad happens to me.
Thank you for reading
Hannah