Am I trying to hard? Where is AF???

First time posting anywhere ever so bear with me…

Ectopic treated with metho on 1/08/14. Levels were normal 2/08/14. Started first AF on 3/7/14. Now I am 40 days into my cycle and nothing! Was supposed to get AF about 10 days or so ago. Not pregnant. Did the ovulation tests last month and I didn’t ovulate!

So I have a couple questions…I started a fertility smoothie about the last week of Feb. so here is what I am currently taking:

wheat grass

maca root powder

acai and gogi berry powder

bee pollen

royal jelly

coconut oil

DHA

prenatal vitamin

cassava fertility pills

do you think this is to much and is messing with my cycles or is it just the ectopic that has messed everything up? I was a 28 day cycle prior to all of this mess and now what? I spotted last month for about 4 days mid cycle, and have had pains in my ovary on and off since then. I’m so confused and desperate to get prego. someone help me!!!

Sorry to hear what you are going through. I had surgery for ectopic pregnancy on the 12th March and I’m waiting for my periods to return. Whilst we were treated in different ways, I can completely empathise in the being anxious about your period arriving.

Could it have been that your spotting was a light period? From reading things, I think that periods can be all over the place after what we have been through. It may be worth speaking with your doctor to get come medical reassurance.

Your smoothie seems to be mainly natural so I cannot imagine that is doing you any harm.

Hoping everything returns to normal for you soon!

Michelle

Dear Crystal25joy,

We are so sorry you have suffered an ectopic pregnancy and would like to help in any way we can.

AF question:

I understand your frustration. My period cycle increased in length from 28 to 40 days for several months after my ectopic pregnancy. It is really common and very frustrating. Broadly speaking, doctors consider menstrual (period) cycles of between 23 to 42 days to be within normal parameters. If the first day of your last period goes beyond 42 days, make an appointment with your doctor to discuss the possible reasons for this.

Smoothie Question:

I will answer this question in two stages as I have to explain the EPT’s alternative therapies policy before commenting on the smoothie.

The EPT is a charity that has the backing of many medical specialists and prides itself in providing accurate, research based medical information. Whilst we understand that many people are interested in the use of alternative and complementary therapies, we do not endorse these on our site. We therefore remind you that, should you wish to make use of these therapies, you exercise caution and also avoid recommending them to other users of the EPT forums. Many complementary medicines are quite powerful and can have harmful side effects if misused. They may also interact with medicines that you may already be taking, or intend to take. Please remember that “natural” does not always mean safe – indeed some of the medicines that are prescribed today (including some controlled drugs) are derived from natural products. Many “natural” or “herbal” preparations can interfere with prescribed medicines or even make an existing condition or illness worse.

Buying medicines on the internet is far from safe and you can never be 100% sure that they do what they say they do, or contain exactly what they say they do. Lastly, there are many unscrupulous people out there who are quite happy to make money from vulnerable groups, making claims that cannot be substantiated about products and services they aim to supply to you, so do be aware of this and only seek guidance and or alternative treatment from appropriately qualified and registered individuals.

Take some of the ingredients in the smoothie like royal jelly - Royal jelly is secreted from the glands in the heads of worker bees and is fed to all bee larvae. It is 67% water, 12.5% crude protein, 11% simple sugars (monosaccharides) and 5% fatty acids. It also contains many trace minerals, some enzymes, antibacterial and antibiotic components, vitamin B5, vitamin B6 and trace amounts of [dietary supplement].

The main risk of it is that it may cause allergic reactions in humans ranging from hives, asthma, to even fatal anaphylaxis although the percentage incidence of allergic side effect is unknown as this has never undergone a large controlled medical study. It is known that the risk of having an allergy to royal jelly is higher in people who have other allergies though.

There have been various claims about the substance from it being able to lower cholesterol through to it being able to treat wounds and the European Food and Safety Association has rejected these claims.

We would not endorse the taking of the smoothie but recognise that you have personal choice and should do what you feel is right.

Best wishes,

EPT Host 13

Thanks for the reply’s…

-Went to my doctor b/c the pains were not getting better and wanted an answer on why my period is MIA. She said everything in the smoothie is fine but she doesn’t see how that all helps with fertility, that is just healthy.

-With my period we are now on day 42 in my cycle (counting since day one of my period) with no signs of it showing up. She said if I don’t get it by mid May to make another appointment so she can help me start it. Hope I dont have to go the route.

-Also she did an exam and felt my ovaries and she said they feel fine, and I had no pain when she did it, but she is having me go get a ultrasound on Monday to make sure everything is fine since I still have pain quite often. To tell you the truth I will probably relax more after this ultrasound since I will know for sure that things are good (or not good)in there. I will post my results. Maybe I will stop thinking the worst after this.

-still no postive on the ovulation tests though. :frowning:

-Hope everyone has a great Easter and I pray for some positive tests for someone this weekend! If its not going to be me then I hope its someone else on here instead of everyone I know on Facebook!

Hi Crystal,

Hope you’re feeling better. Your dr seems to have been really proactive in helping you out, which is encouraging.

Pic too had my ep discovered early jan.

My levels hit zero at 9 feb and I had some very light bleeding which I took as af end of March.

33 days later my AF arrived.

I did go to the dr after it was late and she said all I could do was wait as it was a sign my body wasn’t ready yet.

I really sympathise with you as I know it’s frustrating. I was taking angus cactus or something, which I stopped taking as I wondered whether it was messing things up.

I know what you mean about Facebook, I’ve had to hide several pregnant ladies on there as I find it too upsetting!!

Hope things get back to normal for you soon.

X

Well…ultrasound was good. All is normal. But its day 49 and still no period. The lady even said my lining was thin so it doesnt look as I am going to be having one for awhile. Still no ovulation. This sucks!

Oh, I’m really sorry to hear that your period hasn’t arrived but good news that everything was okay on the ultrasound.

I’m 6 weeks after my surgery and mine still hasn’t arrived so I understand your frustrations! I haven’t had a period since January so I’m a walking ball of hormones and different emotions.

I’m trying to look at it rationally and positive though. It’s clearly our bodies way of doing some healing now so we’re not in this positive again.

Take care of you and I hope that things return to normal for you soon!

Michelle

I know how you feel. I had my operation in October, then I had 3 months of completely normal and regular periods. Since we started trying again in February my body doesn’t know whether it is coming or going, I have had an early period, a normal period and now am a week late, but with 3 negative tests so I’m back to the doctor this afternoon to see what is going on. I know it is probably the stress of trying again, but after having regular periods for nearly 20 years it is so frustrating that they are now all over the place!

hope you get everything sorted out.

HI Ali,

I had the same when we started trying again in february - all of the sudden my periods were all over the place, where they are 28-29 days usually.

I am just trying not to be stressed and hopefully that might calm things down a bit.

good Luck to everyone!

Update…So I went in for a regular ultrasound with my regular Dr, since the pain wont stop. She also took blood and called me and said I have MONO!!! Very pissed off at this point and I will guess that the pain is from the spleen being enlarged. (find out ultrasound results tomorrow) This pushes us back from trying for a baby till like July!!! Dr. said that its probably the reason I haven’t had a period or ovulation in 62 days! So…yeah me! Another waiting period to try and I can’t workout either as well!! So there goes that whole “if i’m not going to be prego i’m going to look fly this summer” Pass me some cake.