Hi Autumn4,
I’m sorry you are going through this. I just found out that my levels have reached 0 after expectant management. But I also struggled to make the right decision as my doctor was really pushing for surgery despite my levels being below the 40s. So I went and did a lot of research to help me make my decision. Obviously, I am not a doctor so it is always good to check with your doctor.
Regardless of the treatment (expectant, medical, surgical), the risk of recurrent ectopic is pretty much the same - around 10%.
Expectant: There has been some studies to show that future fertility outcome is better and the time to conceive again is also shorter. However, the studies are fairly recent and still limited so the overall significance of the findings remains unclear. A potential bias to the positive results could also be that if you are able to manage the ectopic pregnancy expectantly, it may be because it wasn’t severe enough in the first place and therefore your chances aren’t affected that much for future outcomes.
Medical: I haven’t really read much about it as my doctor ruled it out for me due to pain. However, if you’ve had an ectopic before, it is recommended to go down the medical and surgical route to minimise the risk of a third ectopic. I am assuming that the future fertility outcome is similar to expectant although this one will come with its side effects.
Surgical: I think this is a very common treatment because the belief is that once you’ve had a tubal ectopic pregnancy, you have sustained permanent damage to your reproductive system. Consequently, the risk of having another ectopic should in theory increase unless you remove that tube. However, that’s not what the literature found. In terms of fertility, because your tube can still pull an egg from the other ovary, there should be a reduction in fertility of only 10-15% (I think). And if you choose surgery, you should also take into consideration the potential side effects.
I chose expectant management against my doctor’s advice because I thought that if my chances of recurrent ectopic remains at 10%, whether I go down the route of expectant vs surgery, I would rather keep both tubes and not do anything to add another risk factor for recurrent ectopic (surgical intervention in your pelvis) and reduce my fertility. However, if I have another ectopic in the same tube next time I fall pregnant, I will probably choose surgery.
I hope this helps.
Regardless of your decision, as this website says, your chances remain the same. Although from what I’ve seen, doctors can have different opinions so do ask lots of questions to make an informed decision. Don’t feel pressured in choosing any of these options.
Good luck!